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When it comes to talking to children, many of us might instinctively simplify or even "dumb down" our language. But treating kids like they’re incapable of handling complexity can be more damaging than we realise. This practice, often labelled as "<keyword id="23912121" type="General" weightage="20" keywordseo="infantilisation" source="keywords">infantilisation</keyword>," stems from a form of age-based bias known as adultism, where society assumes that children lack the capability to engage meaningfully with complex issues. Yet, research increasingly suggests that children, if given the chance, can think critically, contribute insights, and show remarkable understanding — even on major topics like environmental ethics and social justice. <h2>Full-fledged citizens</h2>Infantilising children can have several negative consequences, including undermining their self-confidence, stifling independence, and causing emotional dependence. Natalie M. Fletcher, a philosophy professor, argues that infantilising children restricts their potential to become active contributors in society. "Children are full-fledged citizens and not just future members of society," she points out. She highlights that children often have valuable perspectives, particularly on issues like friendship, where their thoughts are sometimes more nuanced than adults’ because these relationships are central to their lives. In her work, Fletcher emphasises that denying children the chance to engage in thoughtful dialogue can lead to the exclusion of a valuable dimension of knowledge and understanding, limiting society as a whole. Encouraging philosophical dialogue in children can empower them to see themselves as agents of change rather than passive future citizens. <h2>Kids need complex conversations</h2>Infantilisation not only hinders mental and emotional development but also impacts children's ability to think independently. Experts warn that children constantly treated as incapable of handling complexity may struggle to develop essential skills like critical thinking and self-reliance. They might become overly dependent on authority figures, leading to low self-esteem and a reduced sense of autonomy as they mature. Encouraging children to express themselves and engage with challenging topics, on the other hand, supports their social and emotional growth, fostering resilience and independence. Additionally, infantilising children often stems from a desire to shield them from life’s complexities, particularly from “adult” topics like <keyword id="6361617" type="General" weightage="20" keywordseo="climate-change" source="Orion">climate change</keyword>. Fletcher argues, however, that children should be allowed to discuss issues like environmental justice, as they are the ones who will ultimately inherit the outcomes of today’s decisions. Children dealing with eco-anxiety, for example, benefit from having open dialogues about environmental concerns, which helps them feel empowered rather than overwhelmed. <h2>Raising independent thinkers, not passive followers</h2>In Fletcher’s educational charity, Brila, children as young as five engage in philosophical discussions that promote critical thinking and active listening. This approach has been shown to help children view themselves as proactive thinkers. While parents may feel compelled to protect their kids from "too much too soon," providing age-appropriate explanations can prevent feelings of helplessness, giving kids the tools they need to become thoughtful, capable adults. As adults, fostering independence and <keyword id="23912120" type="General" weightage="20" keywordseo="critical-thinking-in-children" source="keywords">critical thinking in children</keyword> means embracing their ability to understand more than we may expect. Treating kids like the complex, capable individuals they are doesn't just support their growth — it strengthens society as a whole. Encouraging kids to share their thoughts and respecting their input can lead to a future generation that's better equipped to face and solve the challenges of tomorrow.

Talking to your child like they’re a kid? Here’s why you might be doing more harm than good

<ul class="summary-list"><li>Author Alan Moore thinks adults liking superhero movies can be a "precursor to fascism."</li><li>He called it an "infantilisation," and an "urge towards simpler times, simpler realities."</li></ul>Author Alan Moore, the co-creator of graphic novels like "Watchmen" and "V for Vendetta," doesn't think superheroes are for grownups.Moore, who has expressed his disdain for superhero movies for years, told <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/books/2022/oct/07/watchmen-author-alan-moore-im-definitely-done-with-comics">The Guardian</a> in a recent interview that he thinks adults who like them can be a "precursor for fascism.""I said round about 2011 that I thought that it had serious and worrying implications for the future if millions of adults were queueing up to see Batman movies," Moore said. "Because that kind of infantilisation — that urge towards simpler times, simpler realities — that can very often be a precursor to fascism."He used the popularity of superhero movies and the election of Donald Trump as examples.Superheros have dominated Hollywood and the box office for over a decade thanks largely to the success of the Marvel Cinematic Universe.But Moore thinks superheroes should still be for children, despite his own involvement in shifting that narrative with "Watchmen" in 1986, which was written by Moore with art by Dave Gibbons."Hundreds of thousands of adults [are] lining up to see characters and situations that had been created to entertain the 12-year-old boys — and it was always boys — of 50 years ago," Moore said. "I didn't really think that superheroes were adult fare. I think that this was a misunderstanding born of what happened in the 1980s — to which I must put my hand up to a considerable share of the blame, though it was not intentional — when things like 'Watchmen' were first appearing."While Moore said he "will always love and adore" comics, he has no plans to return to the medium."I'm definitely done with comics," he told The Guardian. "I haven't written one for getting on for five years. I will always love and adore the comics medium but the comics industry and all of the stuff attached to it just became unbearable."

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Tumblr/Paige Leskin<ul class="summary-list"><li><a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/category/tumblr">Tumblr</a> banned <a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/tumblr-bans-nfsw-content-and-users-say-the-platform-will-suffer-2018-12">the posting of "adult content,"</a> including nudity and pornography, one year ago on December 17, 2018.</li><li>In the year since the "porn ban," traffic to Tumblr and app downloads have dropped drastically. To top it all off, Tumblr <a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/tumblr-3-million-valuation-cheaper-than-san-francisco-empty-lot-2019-8">was bought this year for less than $3 million</a>, compared with its <a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/yahoos-board-approves-11-billion-purchase-of-tumblr-2013-5">once-$1.1 billion price tag</a>.</li><li>For many, Tumblr was once considered a home for NSFW content not allowed on other social platforms, and a place for non-judgmental exploration of sexuality. In its wake, users are still struggling to find alternatives with the same sense of community.</li><li>Further, Tumblr's algorithm for identifying NSFW content is having issues, and has flagged everything from <a href="https://twitter.com/Twarda8/status/1069718711630745600">Pokémon</a>, to <a href="https://twitter.com/Arden68247747/status/1069718842203627520">dinosaur art</a>, to <a href="https://twitter.com/search?q=tumblr&amp;src=typd">TV show screengrabs</a>.</li><li><a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/">Visit Business Insider's homepage for more stories.</a></li></ul>Earlier this year, a freelance artist named Vitrove took to the blogging website Tumblr to try out an experiment. He posted a photo of a spool of thread to Tumblr. Later, he posted it again. Then again. All four of Vitrove's posts were flagged by Tumblr as "sensitive" content, meaning the platform's algorithm had decided his posts were in violation of its "porn ban" <a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/tumblr-bans-nfsw-content-and-users-say-the-platform-will-suffer-2018-12">enacted one year ago</a>, on December 17, 2018, days after the app was removed from the App Store <a href="https://www.theverge.com/2018/11/20/18104366/tumblr-ios-app-child-pornography-removed-from-app-store">after child porn was discovered</a>.Under <a href="https://tumblr.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/231885248-Adult-content">Tumblr's new policy</a>, users are not allowed to post any not-safe-for-work (NSFW) content: that includes nudity, pornography, and media showing "real-life human genitals or female-presenting nipples." In each subsequent re-post of the photo, Vitrove included the notification from Tumblr alerting him to the NSFW policy violation.The flagging of Vitrove's posts is only one of the many examples that demonstrate the state of Tumblr's controversial porn ban a year after its implementation. Pictures of <a href="https://twitter.com/gothick/status/1085323401533812737">breakfast</a>, <a href="https://twitter.com/SparkleFountain/status/1069693571568156672">anime</a>, and <a href="https://twitter.com/robochihaya/status/1126226945572777985">memes</a> have been flagged under the new policy. Even <a href="https://twitter.com/lucycamui/status/1069714283817132032">Tumblr's announcement</a> about the porn ban was marked as NSFW.VintroveThis post from Tumblr shows how the "porn ban" policy has a long way to go.But Tumblr's imperfect machine-learning algorithm only poses a problem for those still active on the platform. Since the ban, Tumblr has been bleeding users. <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2019/12/tumblr-year-review-2019-nsfw-ban-memes/602911/">According to data provided to The Atlantic</a>, Tumblr's number of unique monthly visitors decreased by more than 20% in 2019. The number of users visiting the site, and the amount of time they spend on it, also declined from 2018 to 2019.Several users who were active in some of Tumblr's largest communities told Business Insider their once-beloved platform has since become irrelevant, and has faded from their lives in the last year. Freelance artist Robin Harper, once a frequent Tumblr user, said the porn ban led to Tumblr's "almost immediate fade into obscurity.""I'd spent so much time and energy accumulating my own fun little community of a few thousand people. I was frustrated and sad," Harper told Business Insider. "The only time you ever hear about Tumblr anymore is when people talk about the day it 'died' due to the NSFW ban. Very few people I know still use it the way we all used to."It's no coincidence that Tumblr acted as a haven to marginalized group whose content wasn't accepted in the mainstream sections of the internet: <a href="https://medium.com/@vexashley/porn-on-tumblr-a-eulogy-love-letter-6d45e70fefff">sex workers</a> needing to make a sustainable income; erotica writers and artists looking for their work to be appreciated; LGBTQ+ people searching for others like them; people into BDSM and kink wanting an open place to talk about their desires. Tumblr was one of the few mainstream social networks where porn and NSFW content was allowed, and so those communities found shelter there."This sharing was so desperately vital for women and other marginalized people whose sexualities are often overlooked or infantilised in media about sex in preference for the tastes of the traditional porn consumer - the straight white guy," porn actress Vex Ashley <a href="https://medium.com/@vexashley/porn-on-tumblr-a-eulogy-love-letter-6d45e70fefff">wrote in a blog post on Medium last year</a>. "[Tumblr] allowed you to become a collector of your own desires, displaying them and celebrating them proudly, rather than having them spoon fed by a tube site algorithm."But because Tumblr doesn't exist on separate private servers on Discord, these communities intersect and interconnect. Even Tumblr users not part of these NSFW-centric communities, like those participating in fandoms or selling their art and graphics, told Business Insider their own sects of Tumblr were heavily impacted by the porn ban. When the porn disappeared, so did Tumblr's sense of community, a German student named Sophia told Business Insider. The art community she found on Tumblr has packed up fully and left for greener pastures: sites like DeviantArt, where there are still strict limits on NSFW art, and Twitter, where NSFW content is still allowed (<a href="https://reclaimthenet.org/twitter-nsfw-creators-2020/">for now</a>).Michael Seto/Business InsiderHowever, that's not to say that the "porn ban" was the only impetus for Tumblr's fall from grace. <a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/yahoo-announces-11-billion-tumblr-buy-2013-5">Yahoo purchased Tumblr back in 2013</a> for $1.1 billion when the blogging site's userbase <a href="https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/jwherrman/is-tumblr-shrinking">was already starting to shrink</a>. Yet Yahoo's <a href="https://digiday.com/marketing/tumblr-is-neglected-by-marketers/">attempt to revitalize the platform failed</a> spectacularly, with the addition of ads and a lack on innovation driving away even more users. In 2017, Verizon acquired Yahoo - including Tumblr - and Tumblr founder and CEO David Karp <a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/tumblr-founder-david-karp-resigns-after-yahoo-merges-with-verizon-to-create-oath-2017-11">left the company</a>. "Tumblr had many problems with being considered a 'broken website' for years, and for months had been in the ownership of a company that I think everyone knew we couldn't trust," Harper, the freelance artist, said. Following the 2018 porn ban, Tumblr fielded offers from those ardent to keep NSFW content alive there, <a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/pornhub-wants-to-buy-tumblr-after-it-was-put-up-for-sale-by-verizon-2019-5">including PornHub</a> and the singer Halsey.But nothing represented just how hard Tumblr had fallen than the announcement in August 2019 that Verizon had sold Tumblr to Automattic, the parent company of website builder WordPress, for a price <a href="https://twitter.com/danprimack/status/1161038705295089664">reported to be under $3 million</a>. That's <a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/tumblr-3-million-valuation-cheaper-than-san-francisco-empty-lot-2019-8">less than an empty lot in San Francisco</a>, and many celebrity engagement rings.While some Tumblr users hoped that perhaps the site's new owner would bring back NSFW content, Automattic's CEO quickly dispelled those rumors."Adult content is not our forte either, and it creates a huge number of potential issues with app stores, payment providers, trust and safety," CEO Matt Mullenweg <a href="https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=20679894">wrote online</a> shortly after the purchase. "It's a problem area best suited for companies fully dedicated to creating a great experience there."What Mullenweg is hinting at are the tricky policies around <a href="https://techcrunch.com/2019/02/12/apple-porn-gambling-apps/">what content Apple and Android allow on apps</a> in their app stores. Right around the time the porn ban was enacted, <a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/tumblr-app-returns-to-iphone-apple-app-store-following-a-month-long-ban-2018-12">Tumblr briefly disappeared from the iOS App Store</a> because of a failure to police child porn on its site. The porn ban was likely a direct response to that incident.But not only is Tumblr having issues retaining users, but it's also having trouble getting new people to its site. The Atlantic's data showed that traffic to Tumblr's login page page in the US has been cut nearly in half sine 2018. In the year since the porn ban, first-time downloads of the Tumblr app declined 32%, according to data provided to mobile analytics service Sensor Tower to Business Insider.Nevertheless, Tumblr <a href="https://fandom.tumblr.com/post/189431755739/2019-year-in-review">published its annual year-in-review</a> in December, highlighting the most popular fandoms and trending topics in categories ranging from K-pop, to Pokémon, to <a href="https://fandom.tumblr.com/post/189431747929/2019-ships">the best "ships"</a> (fictionalized relationships that Tumblr users love to speculate about)."Nowadays, I see only a handful of people I used to follow post on Tumblr, and it's just funny or political reblogs," Tumblr user Matthew Marquez told Business Insider. 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