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I'm a dungeon monitor for BDSM sex parties. I love that my job helps people feel safe while exploring their kinks.
As a dungeon monitor, my responsibilities range from making sure no one takes photos to checking in…
Julia Pugachevsky
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I'm a dominatrix who loves to take control in the bedroom. BDSM helped me heal my sexual trauma and made me more confident.
The writer says she used to have only vanilla sex because of sexual trauma. BDSM helped her take ba…
Elizabeth Ayoola
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3 tips for verbally dominating your lover, according to a dominatrix and fetish wrestler
Dominatrix, sex educator, and fetish wrestler Lola Jean explained how to use verbal domination to t…
Julia Naftulin
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How to have better sex: 3 things vanilla couples can learn from the kink community, according to a sexologist
Wondering how to have better sex? Look to the kink community, a sexologist says. They make time for…
Serafina Kenny
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Don't feel self-conscious about loving 'vanilla sex' - pleasure is all about variety
Vanilla sex may be viewed as boring, but pleasure exists on a spectrum, Marika Leila Roux, CEO and …
Canela López
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Armie Hammer is reportedly 'obsessed' with Shibari, a type of sexual bondage that started out as a torture method
According to Vanity Fair, Armie Hammer was "obsessed" with buying mannequins and rope, and spent hi…
Canela López
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How an intimacy coordinator is putting an end to '50 Shades of Gray' BDSM portrayals
Olivia Troy uses her background in bondage and theater to turn power dynamics on their head and tel…
Julia Naftulin
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4 myths about BDSM you need to stop believing, according to kink experts
From choking ("breath play") to being tied up ("rigging") to being hit with different items ("impac…
Canela López,Julia Naftulin
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What it's like to be a dominatrix who whips and degrades her 'sugar daddy' for a living: 'The whole point is to make them feel completely worthless.'
Mistress Ree's wealthy white "sub" is particularly into raceplay.
Canela López
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You already use ChatGPT to make life easier. Now try using AI chatbots for better sex, a sexologist says.
Dr. Amy Marsh, sexologist and AI chatbot beta tester, spoke to Insider about the real-life benefits…
Serafina Kenny
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5 easy ways to try BDSM with your partner if you've never done it before
Easily the best-known type of kinky sex is BDSM (bondage-discipline, dominance-submission, and sadi…
Canela López
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'Love and Leashes,' a BDSM-themed Korean romantic comedy, is sparking online conversations about consent
Viewers have praised the film, which has topped Netflix charts across Asia, for driving home the im…
Waiyee Yip
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A dominatrix explains how she whips and teases her clients over video during the pandemic
Mistress Amandara is a Berlin-based dominatrix. She used to make €250 an hour to whip, tease, and b…
Canela López,Barbara Corbelli…
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Why cuckolding is a more popular kink in the US than Europe, according to a sexual fantasy researcher
Cuckolding is far more taboo in the U.S. than in Europe because it greatly differs from traditional…
Julia Naftulin
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A dominatrix uses Animal Crossing to virtually mock and order around clients — and she accepts bells for payment
Denali Winter dominates their clients on Animal Crossing by virtually beating them up, ordering the…
Canela López
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Americans are shopping for whips, handcuffs, and other bondage gear during lockdown
Sales are up for bondage gear, particularly whips and handcuffs, according to a new study by Love t…
Canela López
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I'm a wife and recovering sex addict. My husband chose to stay after my online affairs.
After spending years on sex-chat sites, Maya Golden is in recovery for sex addiction that she attri…
Maya Golden
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How Shibari, the Japanese rope bondage shown on Netflix's 'Too Hot to Handle,' could help your relationship
Netflix's newest reality dating show featured a workshop on shibari — a Japanese form of rope bonda…
Canela López
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Rewatching David Lynch's 'Blue Velvet' as a survivor of sexual trauma and member of the kink community gave me a new appreciation for its depiction of BDSM
Opinion | The controversial, kinky "Blue Velvet" scenes made this writer queasy as a teen. Now an a…
Laura LeMoon
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A leaked video of a Manhattan City Council candidate in a BDSM dungeon was flagged to the press by his campaign manager
The New York Post reported that Zack Weiner's campaign manager flagged the video to them. Weiner sa…