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I grew up in the US and my husband grew up in Ireland. We've settled down in Dublin, but there were a few culture shocks along the way.
I grew up in the US and my husband grew up in Ireland. We've settled down in Dublin, but there were a few culture shocks along the way.
Alexis McSparrenSep 12, 2024, 02:42 IST
I moved from the US to Ireland.Alexis McSparren
When I met my Irish partner, it was clear we had very different upbringings in the US and Ireland.
Some cultural differences, such as drinking norms and foreign-language learning, were quite stark.
My husband and I were born almost exactly one year apart and over 4,000 miles away from each other. We always say it was fate that somehow brought us together.
While I was growing up in the humble Midwest of the United States, he was raised just outside Dublin by the Wicklow Mountains and the Irish Sea.
Our paths collided after I moved to Ireland in 2019, and ever since, I've settled into a new life as an expat.
Growing up in different cultures has allowed us to have interesting conversations about our everyday habits, respective upbringings, and general life experiences.
Here are a few of the biggest culture shocks we've noticed.
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Pub culture in Ireland isn't the same as drinking culture in the US.
Most of our socialization here happens at pubs.Alexis McSparren
Driving across Ireland seems like a leisurely road trip to me, but my partner disagrees.
We've explored other parts of Ireland together.Alexis McSparren
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My family was less likely to travel internationally growing up than his.
It's easier and cheaper to get to nearby countries in Ireland.Alexis McSparren
There are two official languages in Ireland, so my partner is bilingual.
Irish students learn English and Irish.Alexis McSparren
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Holidays and seasons are a much bigger deal in the US than they are in Ireland.
I miss the extravagance around fall and Halloween in the US.Alexis McSparren
In the US, there's more of an emphasis on independence from a young age.
Instead of getting their own apartments, it's not uncommon for Irish young adults to live at home.Alexis McSparren
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The driving age is younger in the US than in Ireland.
You have to be 17 to drive in Ireland.Alexis McSparren
My partner was baffled by the active-shooter drills I grew up doing in American schools.
I've never felt safer than my years living in Ireland.Alexis McSparren