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11 signs that your job is making your life miserable
11 signs that your job is making your life miserable
Natalie WaltersJun 11, 2020, 20:13 IST
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Every job has its ups and downs. But there can be a serious issue if your job is constantly downs, according to Amy Morin, the author of "13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do."
If your job is dominating your every thought — particularly all of the things that have gone wrong, or all of the reasons you don't want to go — it can negatively impact your time away from work.
If something good happens at work, but you can still only see the negatives, your job may be taking an outsized toll on you.
Everybody has bad days at work. But if you dread waking up every Monday through Friday, or you regularly find yourself sitting at your desk on the verge of tears, you probably have a more serious problem on your hands.
Amy Morin, author of "13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do," says a hostile work environment can cause people to be miserable and may, in some rare cases, even be linked with depression. The problem is, once you fall into that trap, it can be difficult to get out.
"Feeling down about your job can set you up for a self-perpetuating cycle by taking a negative toll on the way you think and the way you behave," she explains. "The more you experience negative thoughts and unproductive behavior, the worse you'll feel."
Here are 11 signs your job is ruining your life.
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1. You can’t stop thinking about your job
It's the first thing you think of when you wake up.
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2. You complain about work — a lot
It can increase your risk of distress.
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3. Social events with coworkers start to seem draining rather than fun
Social events should still be fun.
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4. Your thoughts about work are exaggeratedly negative
Your inner monologue can drag you down.
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5. You filter out anything good about work
You'll see the glass as half empty.
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6. You're experiencing some physical health issues
Depression can have physical signs.
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7. You don't want to get out of bed in the morning — ever
It means you'll be closer to work.
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8. You're irritable
You might snap at small things.
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9. You call in sick — just to stay home
You're trying to avoid work.
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10. You don't care about your work performance anymore
This could make your negative predictions about work come true.
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11. You get the Sunday-night blues
It makes the end of your weekend mentally exhausting.
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