The best decision I ever made as a leader was choosing to make my role obsolete

What do you experience when you consider working to make your role obsolete? Excitement? Determination? Skepticism? Doubt? If you are less than keen about it, you are not alone. Most leaders do not strive to work themselves out of a job. After all, it could mean giving up something that you love, that fulfills you, that challenges you. And if you give away your responsibilities to your team, then what will you do?

But leaders who strive to make themselves obsolete don't see it as losing something; they see it as gaining something: space. Space to mentor, coach, and delegate. By developing your people to take on your responsibilities, you create space for new opportunities, bigger problems to tackle, higher-stakes games to play, or deeper, more meaningful connection to what is most important to you. It gives you space to live into your legacy in bigger and more impactful ways.

It relies on you hiring people who are smarter, brighter, and different than you, and allowing them to shine. It sometimes depends on you giving up the driver's seat and letting go of having to do things your way.

This is much easier if you are clear on what you are gaining. What is your motivation? For some, it is the deep satisfaction of developing an exceptional team of leaders for the world — an expression of purpose. For others, it is about gaining the time to take on their next big goals or having the space to start thinking about what those next big goals might be.

Connect with what you do and don't want to be as a leader, and answer these questions:

• What do I need to start doing?

• What do I need to stop doing?

• Who do I need to start being?

• Who do I need to stop being?

What stands out for you? What do you see as important? How do your values show up? Where does fear creep in? What will you commit to today? This week? Next week? Next month? How will you hold yourself accountable?

Your success will become evident when people start to genuinely follow you because they want to, not because they have to — and your advancement will feel natural and effortless.

Nancy Richardson began her career with a BA from the University of Washington and MBA from Ohio State University. After more than 20 years of working in large, corporate environments, including Starbucks and Lululemon — she decided to design her own life by tapping into the era of startups and passion projects, building meaningful brands, and working from home to spend more time with her family. She is the founder and principal strategist of Dragon Lady and CEO of Mom 'n' Pop Shop. Her mission is to embolden the workforce of the future. She can be reached on LinkedIn and at Mom 'n' Pop Shop and Work Freely.

Rochelle Davidson, CPCC, ACC, is chief embolden officer at Rochelle Davidson Coaching. Her purpose is to embolden and equip people and organizations to create their unique impact in the world. With a BA in business from the University of British Columbia and a MA in applied behavioral sciences from Bastyr University, she is at her best when partnering with leaders to create healthy employees and workplaces to get results that really matter. Rochelle is a proud cancer survivor and this experience has further fuelled her mission to see people and organizations thrive, not merely survive. Rochelle is a certified professional coach, credentialed through International Coach Federation and Coaches Training Institute. Rochelle lives a life she loves in Vancouver, Canada. She can be reached on LinkedIn, at WorkFreely.co, and at rochelledavidson.com.

Their new book, "Work Freely: Love Your Job. Love Your Life." is available on WorkFreely.co, Amazon, and other fine booksellers.