My fiance and I live on half of our income so we can pay off $75,000 in student loans and still save for retirement. Here's what a typical week looks like.

The majority of our bills come out the first week of the month, which is helpful in distributing our cash flow. Right after those bills come out we transfer money to savings or investments in a "pay yourself first" method.

We then triple check to make sure we have the right amount of "outgoing" money in our checking accounts. This is money for gas, groceries, and items that we purchase during the month. Even though we put our purchases on rewards credit cards to gather points, they are paid off in full every month to avoid any kind of consumer debt.

We are not perfect by any means. Sometimes we totally blow our dining out budget because there are too many happy hours with friends. If we do, we always have a backup cushion of savings and get back on track together.

I think it's important to be OK with the imperfections of money management. We're humans who make mistakes and give in to pressure. We strive to find balance with our money, even if that means it will take us longer to get to financial independence.

Here's how we spent our money during a recent week in October:

On Monday I worked from 7 a.m. until 11 a.m. editing some articles I wrote over the weekend. My partner works 12-hour shifts monitoring the electrical grid. When he is working shifts, we don't get to see each other very much. On his days off, we try to spend quality time together.

We took a drive and hiked up to Cape Disappointment lighthouse. We have an electric and hybrid car, so road trips are cheap and fun. We stopped along the way at a pub and had garden burgers and flight of beer.

Tuesday was a full work day for me. My partner took out his mountain bike and headed to the hills. In the evening I went to hip-hop class with my soon to be sister-in-law. In between those activities we took our big dog, Henry, on a walk.

One of our budget items is health. This includes my health insurance, but also money for cycle and dance classes. It's as much a mental health fund as it is a physical health fund. Since I work from home, I need to find ways to be active and clear my mind. My partner does other things like mountain biking and snowboarding to clear his head and stay active.

This was another full workday from 6:30 a.m. to 6 p.m. It's a self-imposed long day because in addition to full-time freelancing, which I do from home, a couple evenings a week I head to my side hustle doing marketing design for a local boutique. Since we are paying off my student debt and working on big savings goals in a high cost of living area, it helps to have multiple streams of income.

On days when I work this much, if my partner is home, he steps up and takes care of all the cooking and household chores. The same is true for when he works 12-hour shifts at work. It's a good balance where we both feel supported working 12-hour days.

Occasionally, these long days line up. When this happens, we save money by always having a meal plan. We buy our groceries weekly and we make sure to save the fast and easy meals for the days we work 12 hours.

We met up in the evening after I got off work for a drink with friends. Our dining out budget is probably what we overspend in the most. We enjoy going out with friends and most of the time it's the way we can foster those relationships.

Today I went to cycle class in the morning and my partner left for work at 5:15 a.m. to start his shift.

Nothing came out of our accounts and we didn't make any personal purchases today. We were still busy doing our normal activities, but because we plan for meals and workout classes we aren't spending. We average about two no-spend days a week.

I did spend some money on business expenses today. My business expenses are not in our personal budget. That's because before I even send myself a paycheck, I pull 35% from my business checking account into a business savings account. This is for taxes, a monthly Adobe subscription, and any kind of purchases I need to make. It stays separate from our combined finances, which is important for anyone who works for themselves.

This was another workday from 6 a.m. to 6 p.m. for me with my side hustle. Since we work most weekends, we rarely get the TGIF feeling on Friday. It's typically the middle of our work week.

My partner was still on shifts, so we made an easy beefless stew. When we make dinner each night, we always make double the recipe so we can have it for lunch the next day. This keeps us from being tempted to eat out. It also ensures less waste of our food.

The expense for Friday was my usual student loan payment. The required payment each month is $400, but we typically make additional payments at the end of the month.

Today I took Henry to the vet for his annual check-up and vaccines. My partner is still on shifts, so I run the daily errands and chores like this. Our pets are family, and that means they get a line in the budget. We spend about $100 per month on pet supplies. If we don't spend all of that, it goes into our savings for their vaccine appointments.

We made the mistake years ago of not having a fully funded emergency fund that takes into account pet expenses. Our cat had a tragic accident where his foot needed to be amputated, and it happened on a weekend so the emergency vet bill was $4,000. Tack on surgery at our normal vet and the total cost was about $5,000. It wiped out our savings and we had to put some on a credit card. Lesson learned to keep a good chunk of money aside for pets and our own emergencies.

Henry was an angel at the vet, so I took him to Petco to pick out a new toy and big bone. We spent $30.16 on both of his treats. I know I can get it cheaper online, but since he doesn't destroy toys I let this happen as a reward. After we got home, I went back to work.

On Sunday I made our grocery list by creating a meal plan for the week, finished up the some work, and then headed to the store. We go to the grocery store weekly so that we can have fresh produce. The bill this time was actually cheap for us, because I stayed conscious of what we had in the pantry as I made the meal plan.

We are big spenders in this category and average $800 a month. This includes all alcohol and household items like laundry soap, paper towels, etc. This, combined with trying new recipes all the time, keeps us spending about $150 to $200 a week on groceries. We've decided we are totally OK with it too. We cook together and eat well at home.

Later on in the day I met up with my aunt. We went hunting for my wedding shoes but didn't find anything. In defeat, we grabbed lunch and then went back to my house to have a hard cider together. Finally, my partner came home from his last shift for three days off before he goes back to work again.

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