I'm an expat in Italy whose kids have been out of school for weeks. This is how we're handling the lockdown and terrifying uncertainty of what's ahead.

By the end of the second week, it was apparent that the situation was growing dire. Amid griping about homework on one of the class chat groups, one mother weighed in with, "Sorry I haven't been on the group chat much. I am a doctor in the hospital. We are running out of beds and respirators in intensive care so could you all wash your hands and stay home? Please don't put me in a position of having to deny the last respirator to one of your loved ones!"

The first week, I had allowed my older son to see his friends in the piazza for a couple hours one afternoon, but upon realizing how serious the situation was, I limited our outings. However, I noticed that many Italians were not following orders. We took a long walk around the block one day, which was an approved activity. I had my dwindling supply of hand sanitizer at the ready, and I wouldn't even let the kids touch railings or collect rocks. The local playground was teeming with kids, their grandparents (clearly over the age of 65) sitting on benches swapping gossip with neighbors. Nearby, a mother and father enjoyed spritzes in the sun at the snack bar, their toddler eating potato chips directly off of the picnic table, a newborn parked next to them snoozing sockless in a pram. The basketball courts overflowed with teenaged boys, and a baton-twirling squad was having an informal practice session on an overgrown patch of grass along the bike path leading into Milan. It could have been any given Sunday in the neighborhood, but it was actually a Wednesday and we were supposed to be on lockdown, staying far away from one another.

Some of the kids' school assignments also left me scratching my head (figuratively speaking, of course). One of my son's teachers assigned a movie to watch, which was hard to find online so it was suggested that one family check it out from the local library and the kids could "pass it around." However, all libraries were closed, and if the point was for us to limit contact, should we really be passing a germ-infested DVD around? My younger son was asked to build a bowling set out of empty toilet paper rolls, which was a less than appealing idea given the circumstances.

As week three approached, all of Lombardy was declared a "red zone" and we were ordered to stay in our homes and only leave to buy essentials like groceries and medicine. The next day, the restrictions were extended throughout the entire country of Italy.

I've stopped watching the news because it makes me feel helpless, but I know the current numbers are terrifying, and we are far from "hitting the peak" of all of this. I do not fear getting the virus (though I would not relish having it either) as much as I worry about any of us needing to go to a hospital, be it for a virus, a broken bone, or an asthma attack.

The kids' schools are finally holding video lessons and their days have a bit more of a routine, which allows me to be slightly more productive. I have moments where I feel I should also be "teaching" them something, so we've done projects like build a planter and trellis for the garden. Spending so much time with me at home has also been a boon for their English, as their schooling and friendships are almost exclusively in Italian.

I can't think about this in big-picture terms yet. This is obviously a huge economic hit for Italy, and it will also affect my family greatly from a financial standpoint, but my focus now is on keeping us healthy and doing our part to not spread this horrible virus.

Post-it notes have begun appearing all over Milan with the words "Tutto andrÀ bene" ("It will all be OK"). We are still in the midst of a great deal of uncertainty, but those small colorful notes on park benches and historic palazzi are helping give me a sense of hope that even if Milan has been forced to stop — catchy hashtags and snazzy videos notwithstanding — the city will come back to life once again some day, and we will go on, if a little bruised and worse for the wear.

Michelle Schoenung is an American journalist and translator who has been based in Milan since 2000.