7 things you should avoid saying to a fasting coworker during Ramadan
Don't insist a coworker eat or come to a lunch meeting.
While wishing a coworker "Happy Ramadan" isn't offensive or inaccurate, most Muslims use the Arabic translation, "Ramadan Mubarak," to greet each other.
You can also say "Ramadan Kareem," which means "have a generous Ramadan," according to USA Today.
Asking someone if they "can't even drink water" isn't offensive, but Muslims have likely heard this question many times before. Just remember that Muslims abstain from all food and drink during daytime, and use pre-dawn and post-dusk time to get their water supply.
If you're a manager, don't assume a coworker wouldn't want accommodations.
Most fasting coworkers don't expect accommodations, but having a conversation with someone observing the holiday can ease the work burden. For instance, you can offer more work-from-home days or let employees who work through lunch leave an hour early.
Writer Nashwa Khan put together a list of tips on other accommodations that you can find here.
Don't ask a fasting coworker if they brushed their teeth this morning.
One negative side effect of fasting for long hours is halitosis, or bad breath that comes from eating infrequently, according to WebMD. Especially as the day goes on, many Muslim coworkers might choose to keep their distance or keep quiet. Adham El Banhawy, a blogger at Medium, says not to take offense.
"If you do happen to come across that smell while you are interacting with them, try not to embarrass them by pointing it out to them or to others behind their backs in a critical way," El Banhawy writes.
Don't ask your female coworker why she isn't fasting.
Muslim women don't fast when they are on their periods, and menstrual cycles don't make for the best office chatter. There are other reasons why Muslims don't fast, too, including illness and travel. If you notice a coworker who normally fasts but is abstaining, it's best not to nudge them unless they bring it up themselves.
Don't be afraid to ask if you can join them for dinner and observe how Muslims break fast.
The month of Ramadan tends to be a social one. Muslims go to their mosque more often and host dinners with friends and family to break the fast, called iftar. At the end of the month, many households partake in celebrations for Eid al-Fitr.
Offering to come to an iftar dinner can be a great way to observe the holiday. Online human resources publication HRZone even suggests using iftar as a way to learn more about your coworker's culture: "Try and use Ramadan as a platform for greater understanding and improving team dynamics," the website states. "Why not throw an iftar one evening and allow people to share a part of their lives with colleagues?"
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