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We asked 7 married men when they knew their spouse was The One. Some were all in before the first date.
We asked 7 married men when they knew their spouse was The One. Some were all in before the first date.
Samantha GrindellNov 3, 2024, 20:01 IST
Getty Images; Chelsea Jia Feng/BI
There's been a debate about how long a couple should date before they know they've met The One.
Seven men shared their love stories and had varying experiences.
Every couple has a different meet cute. Some might lock eyes across a room, while others might meet through friends. Nowadays, more and more couples meet online.
That connection turns into a relationship, and there's often a moment when someone realizes they found the person they want to spend their life with.
In September, dating coach Anwar White said in a TikTok video — which had over 4 million views as of Sunday — that men typically know within six months of dating their partner if they want to marry them.
However, therapist Shara Cherepes previously told Business Insider that the excitement of a relationship's initial months can blind people to their partner's flaws, so you need time to determine if someone is the one for you.
Seven married men told BI their real love stories, offering insight into how long it takes people to know they found the one.
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Robert Singleton II, 39, met his wife Crystal Singleton, 39, when he was in medical school.
Robert and Crystal Singleton.Robert Singleton
Dillon White, 37, and Suzanne White, 35 — better known as DadChats and MomChats on TikTok — crossed paths in college.
The Whites competed against each other in speech and debate.Dillon White
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An audition brought Eric Williams and Matt Lummus, both 35, together.
Eric Williams and Matt Lummus met in New York.Eric Williams
Ryan Carriger, 31, and Delilah Carriger, 29, found love on a dating app.
The Carrigers have been a couple since 2020.Ryan Carriger
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Maaz Khan and Maria Villa, both 27, are college sweethearts.
Maaz Khan and Maria Villa were friends before they fell in love.Maaz Khan
Dominique Bouchard, 33, caught the eye of Kolter Bouchard, also 33, on their first day of college.
Kolter Bouchard noticed Dominique Bouchard their freshman year of college.Courtesy of Dominique and Kolter Bouchard/Desiree Thomas
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Dean Indot, 53, matched with Alexis Indot, 27, on a dating app in the thick of the pandemic.