Everything we learned from 'Seduced,' the 4-part docuseries on alleged sex cult Nxivm

Former members learned about Nxivm through friends and family who were impressed by their self-help courses, and Oxenberg was no different.

Her mother, "Dynasty" actress Catherine Oxenberg, heard about Nxivm courses through a trusted friend who said her business grew after taking just one class. During that conversation, Oxenberg happened to be home, so she signed up for the course and attended along side her mother.

Catherine said she's still grappling with her role in her daughter's involvement to this day.

"One of the hardest things for me to reconcile is I was the one who introduced India to Nxivm and that I did not recognize the warning signs, the red flags," she said in "Seduced."

Nxivm lured in the rich and famous, like Seagrams heiresses Sara and Clare Bronfman and wealthy Mexican politicians' families, so they could recruit even more people in their elite networks and use their fortunes to fund legal battles.

But they also used people's celebrity statuses to make the group seem more authoritative, Oxenberg said in "Seduced."

After a celebrity took Nxivm's introductory course, they'd tout that person's name to entice others into the courses.

According to Oxenberg, high-ranking members would mention how Jennifer Aniston, Gerard Butler, and Sir Richard Branson took Nxivm classes, even if they didn't become full-fledged members and take more courses.

Sometimes, Oxenberg met these high-profile people in person at the introductory courses.

"There were entrepreneurs and strong powerful women like Rosario Dawson, who I just got to strike up a conversation with. I was impressed," Oxenberg said in the docuseries.

To an outsider, the accountability exercises Nxivm members would partake in, like waking up at 3 AM for a cold shower or sleeping on the ground, might seem outlandish.

But these non-stop requirements were purposeful, cult researchers in "Seduced" explained.

These drills, plus the week-long "Vanguard Week" camping-trip-meets-seminar to celebrate Raniere's birthday, wore down members so they'd be exhausted and easier to influence.

"What Keith was a genius at was tweaking and working this curriculum with the deliberate attempt of breaking people down," cult researcher Rick Alan Ross told Oxenberg in "Seduced."

Ross said this is called a "high arousal technique" and said it's used to keep cult followers busy and addicted to feelings of happiness and contentment so they don't ask questions and want to keep coming back.

Footage in "The Vow" and "Seduced" show Raniere kissing Nxivm members, both men and women, on the lips following seminars.

Raniere denied he was dating anyone in the group, and made the kisses out to be the way Nxivm members greeted each other.

But if a member opposed a kiss, they were intentionally embarrassed and asked to think about their aversion, Oxenberg said in "Seduced."

She said this framing was a way to make Nxivm members feel dumb and like any hesitation they had was a personal failing, so they'd fall deeper into Raniere's influence.

Oxenberg also said that members were often asked to wear electrode caps, head-shaped pieces of fabric with wires attached that can track and record brain wave patterns, while discussing past traumas or watching traumatic videos.

Brandon B. Porter was the Nxivm member who spearheaded this initiative and later was charged with medical misconduct following Raniere's arrest in 2015.

In "Seduced," one anonymous former member recalled that Porter sat women members in chairs and showed them images and videos of abuse while they wore electrode caps. He filmed how they reacted to tapes of women getting their heads cut off and Mexican drug lords holding the heads in the air, the anonymous source said.

Former members have mentioned the amount of therapy and support they've needed in their recoveries, but Oxenberg took it a step further, getting specific about how much time it's taken for her to comes to terms with her trauma.

In the first part of "Seduced," Oxenberg said it took her 50 hours of therapy to be able to admit Raniere sexually abused her.

"Seduced" contains footage of Raniere teaching various Nxivm courses.

His rhetoric shed light on his underlying beliefs, like the idea that victimization is a mindset in any and all circumstances.

In one clip, Raniere went as far to suggest the word "rape" comes from a singular person, the victim, and their perspective. He said that rape is victimization strategy, and that there must be more than one side to every story if a supposed rapist enjoyed the experience.

These clips illustrated why Raniere felt entitled to women.

Like Nxivm itself, DOS, the secret sex-slave sorority within the organization, operated as a pyramid scheme, according to the docuseries.

Members in both Nxivm and DOS were required to recruit new members, who reported to them. In Nxivm, new recruits reported to coaches, while in DOS, "slaves" reported to their "masters."

Each master had multiple slaves, Oxenberg said, and they were called "pods."

The slaves weren't told how many pods there were in total, or how many women were in each pod, but investigations presented in "Seduced" showed there were at least 150 DOS sex slaves.

Though much of the media coverage on Nxivm focuses on former members who escaped and worked towards recovering from cult-induced trauma, others weren't as lucky.

"Seduced" said Nxivm trainings would sometimes lead members to have mental breakdowns, and in one case, led to a member leaving a suicide note. She was never found.

Ana Cecilia, who was in Nxivm for 6 months starting in 2002, recounted what she described as a "psychotic break" after taking a series of Nxivm courses in Albany headquarters.

Cecilia traveled there from Mexico, and said both the course and co-founder Nancy Salzman's comments made her question what was real and what was fake, to the point she was sent back to her hotel room to rest. When her boyfriend came to check on her and take her back to the Nxivm course, she said she ran out of the hotel naked, screaming, and making a scene.

Then, in 2003, member Kristin Marie Snyder disappeared during a Nxivm training, according to the docuseries. Former members said in "Seduced" that she left a suicide note mentioning how the trainings brainwashed her, but she was never seen again.

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