<p class="ingestion featured-caption">Lindsay submitted her Tinder profile to Insider's Dating App Clinic.Insider</p><ul class="summary-list"><li>Lindsay submitted her <strong>Tinder profile for review by an expert as part of </strong><a target="_blank" rel href="https://www.insider.com/category/dating-app-clinic"><strong>Insider's Dating App Clinic</strong></a><strong>.</strong></li><li>Dating coach Erika Ettin said Lindsay should remove some photos and crop her friends out of others.</li></ul><p>Lindsay, a 41-year-old using Tinder to date, submitted her profile for <a target="_blank" rel href="https://www.insider.com/nato-not-attached-to-outcome-dating-apps-advice-2023-10"><u>Insider's Dating App Clinic</u></a>, a series where we ask experts how to revamp your dating profiles to increase your chances of finding a match.</p><p>Lindsay said she's looking to date men. She's seeking someone who is honest and emotionally intelligent, and who has a growth mindset. Her deal breakers are smoking and poor communication.</p><p>"I want to convey that I'm an introvert. I like to balance being adventurous and a home body, and being fun and serious," Lindsay told Insider. "I also really care about personal growth and equity and diversity."</p><p>Ultimately, Lindsay is seeking a long-term partnership that can turn into marriage. She's also open to having children.</p><p>Lindsay said she thinks she did a good job of picking selfies and other photos that show off her appearance and interests, but wonders if her photo choices and written bio are too specific.</p><p>Dating coach <a target="_blank" href="https://www.alittlenudge.com/">Erika Ettin</a> told Insider how Lindsay could update her dating profile to increase her chances of finding a match.</p>