A 25-year-old claims to be romantic, but a dating coach says his Hinge profile doesn't reflect that. Here's what he should change.

Julia NaftulinMay 9, 2023, 21:41 IST

James submitted his profile for review as part of Insider's Dating App Clinic.Insider

Men's dating coach Sara Tick reviewed James' Hinge profile, saying he needs more clear photos.
James should also write more about his ideal match, since it's not clear in his current profile.

James, a 25-year-old using Hinge to date, submitted his profile for Insider's Dating App Clinic, a series where we ask experts how to revamp your dating profiles to increase your chances of finding a match.

James said he's looking to date women and is seeking someone who is "fun, respectful, and submissive." He said his deal breakers are someone with "no personality" and someone who is inconsistent or disrespectful.

Ultimately, James is looking for a serious girlfriend whose company he enjoys and who he can grow with.

"I want to convey that I'm a romantic individual who's goofy, chill, and fun to be around. I don't want come off as a nice guy, but I'm a gentleman and respectful," James told Insider.

James said he thinks he shows his adventurous side well in his profile, but he'd love more help with photo options.

Sara Tick, a therapist and founder of men's date-coaching service Modern Meet, told Insider how James could spruce up his dating profile to increase his chances of finding a match.

Tick said James has a great sense of style.

Tick would love to see a headshot and a full-body picture of James in a suit, she told Insider.Insider

James should also show off his romantic side more, said Tick.

James said he can be a romantic, but an expert says his profile doesn't make it seem that way.Insider

Here, Tick appreciated James' sense of humor, especially in the written portion.

James should write more conversation-starting answers, like he did here, said Tick.Insider

Here, James can use a written prompt to highlight his goofy side even more.

Tick enjoyed James' humorous photo choice of another couple.Insider

Tick recommended James share more about his beliefs on his profile.

Tick said James should write about himself more.Insider

James may want to invest in a tripod for more intentional photos, Tick said.

James said he doesn't have many high-quality photos of himself to share.Insider

Finally, James may want to try other apps too, like Christian Mingle, Tick said.

Using more than one dating app can increase your chances of finding a match.Insider

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