- The "car girl" is a fun play on the traditional cowgirl
sex position. - Reclining the passenger seat can help you enjoy different angles for seated sex.
Whether you're bored of the bedroom or you're out and simply can't wait to make it home to have sex, getting it on in the car is an exciting and adventurous option.
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A few tips before you steam up the windows:
- Safety first. Be sure to park with your emergency brake on, says Joe Kort, PhD, certified sex therapist and clinical director of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health.
- Park your car away from public view. Private options include an empty parking lot or nature area. Car sex in and of itself is not illegal, but you could be charged with indecency if you're caught in a public place.
- Dress for the occasion. Wear clothes that are easy to remove in a small space or that can be used to cover yourself at a moment's notice. One good option is a loose-fitting dress.
Once you're safe and away from any possible spectators, try these 10 positions for hot and steamy car sex.
1. Backseat doggy
Step-by-step:
1. The partner being penetrated should get on all fours on the backseat.
2. The penetrating partner kneels behind and enters.
3. If the penetrating partner is tall and their head is hitting the ceiling, they can drape their upper body over the partner being penetrated
This position is compact enough to work in the backseat, and it's easy to adjust to make sure both partners fit comfortably. Plus, Kort says doggy style allows for deep penetration, which can be pleasurable for both partners, as well as G-spot stimulation if the partner being penetrated has a vagina.
Doggy style is also great for anal penetration and stimulating the prostate, or male G-spot.
2. Seated rear entry
Step-by-step:
1. The penetrating partner should sit in the passenger seat, and recline the seat back if they wish.
2. The partner being penetrated climbs on top and sits in their partner's lap, facing the front of the car, away from their partner's face.
3. While being penetrated, the partner can bend forward and rest their arms on the dashboard for extra support, or lean back against their partner for more contact and caressing.
This position is easy to do in the car, and can be a little more discreet than a position like doggy. Kort says you can also try this position in the driver's seat, but it may be more difficult with the steering wheel in the way.
3. Car girl
Step-by-step:
1. The partner who is penetrating should sit in the driver or passenger seat.
2. The partner being penetrated kneels or squats on top, facing their partner, as the penetrating partner enters.
3. The partner being penetrated can move up and down, grind, or do whatever feels best.
Just like the good-old cowgirl, this position allows for the partner being penetrated to take control of the depth and speed of penetration. Plus, both partners can use their hands to stimulate erogenous zones such as the clitoris during sex.
Note: Clitoris stimulation is a great plus because, according to a 2018 study, 36.6% of women need direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm during sex.
4. The seashell
Step-by-step:
1. In the back seat, the partner being penetrated should lie on their back and raise their legs up and over so their body is folding in half and the ankles are close to the shoulders. They can use their hands to hold their legs in this position, if necessary.
2. The penetrating partner should take some time here to do some teasing by rubbing their penis up against the clitoris and surrounding area.
3. The penetrating partner can enter from a missionary position.
Since the partner being penetrated is basically folded in half, this allows for backseat car sex in more compact cars. Plus, with the legs up, penetration can be deeper than in traditional missionary. Not to mention, the penetrating partner will have a very nice view. However, this position does require a bit of flexibility on the part of the partner being penetrated.
5. Spooning
Step-by-step:
1. The penetrating partner should lie on their side in the backseat, with their back against the backrest.
2. The partner being penetrated gets into a little spoon position against their partner, as the partner enters from behind.
This position is great when you want to feel close and intimate with your partner, even if you're in a car, says Kort. He says the position allows for cozy cuddling as well as G-spot, or P-spot, stimulation for the partner being penetrated.
6. The slow rocker
Step-by-step:
1. The penetrating partner sits cross-legged on the back seat.
2. The partner being penetrated sits on their partner's lap, face-to-face, wrapping their legs around their partner.
3. Both partners hug each other for support while they rock and grind on each other.
Kort says this is a great option when you want something slow, but still stimulating. Rocking and grinding during penetration will allow for new sensual sensations such as more rubbing on the clitoris, different from the typical in and out motions with many other positions.
7. Car 69
Step-by-step:
1. One partner starts by lying across the back seat.
2. The other partner gets on top, positioning themselves so that each partner faces the other's genitals.
3. Each partner can then begin performing oral or manual sex.
This position is a great foreplay option. It also offers people with vulvas a greater chance of orgasm thanks to the all-important clitoral stimulation. If the traditional positioning is uncomfortable, the 69 can also be performed horizontally, with both partners turned on their sides.
8. Four on the floor (of the car)
Step-by-step:
1. The partner doing the penetrating sits in either the front or back seat.
2. The receiving partner sits on their lap, then leans forward to place both hands on the floor as they are penetrated.
Quick tip: It can help to adjust your seats to provide maximum floor space during this move.
This move is not only perfectly suited for car sex, but it also offers the penetrating partner access to the erogenous zones around the anus.
9. Legs up missionary
Step-by-step:
1. The receiving partner lies on their back in the back seat.
2. The receiving partner then places their legs on the penetrating partner's shoulders as they mount them. The receiving partner can either bend their legs or keep them straight. The penetrating partner can also hold the receiving partner's thighs.
Similar to the seashell but without the flexibility requirement, this position offers a car-friendly, compact version of missionary.
10. Car scissoring
Step-by-step:
1. Each partner starts on a different side of the back seat, propped either on their elbows or against the side of the car.
2. Lying on opposite sides with their legs spread, each partner slides closer until their genitals are touching.
3. Then each partner grinds and rubs, finding a rhythm and position that feels good.
Scissoring isn't only a lesbian sex position. All types of folks can find enjoyment from it. The position doesn't require penetration and can even be performed fully clothed. It also allows for eye contact, which can help foster maximum intimacy.
Insider's takeaway
Try out these positions and add your own twist to them to discover what feels best for you and your partner.
Remember to park your car in a discreet area and make sure the emergency brake is engaged.
Car sex may take some trial and error depending on the size of you, your partner, and the car. But once you figure out the logistics, you'll be having fun and steaming up the windows in no time.