People said majoring in English was a waste of time and money - but here are 5 ways I use it in my everyday life

While on the outside it may look like being an English major is all about writing, I would argue that it's almost equally about listening.

The courses I took trained me to read a text critically and openly, as well as engage in discussions with my peers over our perspectives in a respectful way. We weren't all meant to agree, but we were meant to elevate the discussion through our disagreements, instead of bringing it down.

The state of civil discussion — especially in the US — has become less and less nuanced. While I can't say that sitting through discussions on "The Great Gatsby" gave me all the tools necessary to handle it, I do believe that working to listen to those I don't necessarily agree with can be an important step toward having more meaningful discussions instead of falling into a spiral of shouting.

Another skill I learned through repeated literary analysis is how to think flexibly about a text and look for themes, perspectives, and symbolism in a story — even when it's a painfully boring book. While sometimes it felt like pulling teeth, this exercise of connecting invisible dots within a story always made for more interesting and impactful discussions.

Looking for the story within the story in this way is something I still use often in my work as a science writer now. I might not always understand every technical aspect of a researcher's work, but by working to understand the broader context and meaning of the research we can still have deep and interesting conversations about it.

This kind of approach can also work whenever you're starting to learn a new topic and looking for common ground.

Stepping away from the philosophy of being an English major, another way I use my degree in my daily life is as a writing tutor at a university. I work one-on-one with everyone from undergraduates to doctoral students to brainstorm, revise, and just generally chat about what they might be struggling with in their writing.

This job not only gives me the opportunity to put my English major wisdom to work, but it helps me reflect more on my own writing process as well. Not to mention, it also pays a significant portion of my bills.

Even if you stay far away from a career as a professional writer, you probably send hundreds of emails a month, if not a week.

While sending well-written and organized correspondence might have been a skill drilled into students a few generations ago, I've observed firsthand in many of my students that this skill is lacking. In fact, it's not uncommon for students to come to my office specifically to work on an email they're drafting.

By no means do I recommend writing a full essay every time you write an email, but having direct topic sentences can help keep your language clear and limit the number of additional emails that pile up in the thread as a result of miscommunication.