Moving in with my significant other was challenging - here are 11 things I wish I had known

Your partner's sensibilities will be somewhat different from your own, and this could be a source of tension unless you make peace with it.

As a writer and a big reader, I was used to being surrounded by books and papers. My love of cooking meant I had an outrageously large pantry full of ingredients which needed a place in our shared kitchen.

My partner, who's more of a minimalist, struggled to cope with my cluttered but creative approach to home life, and it took a while to find a happy medium that didn’t drive us both crazy.

If you’re lucky enough to live in a huge house with a sizable kitchen, I envy you! Navigating a small kitchen was no big deal when I was living on my own, but sharing one with my partner quickly became a frustrating experience.

Thankfully, we eat dinner together most nights, and cooking for two is so much better than making food just for me.

If you're used to spending most of your time with your partner before moving in together, it might seem like actually sharing an address won't be that much different, and in a way, it isn't. Still, it's a comforting thought to know that when you come in from a rough day at work or you just want to cuddle and watch TV, your significant other will be there to oblige.

Admittedly, I initially underestimated the simple pleasure of having my partner with me every night without fail, but it's one of the best things about living together.

My wife and I were in a long-distance relationship when I moved to a new city to be with her. I didn't anticipate the transition would be so rocky.

Our saving grace throughout this experience has been our willingness to compromise.

Whether it's on the color of the new sofa for the living room or what to eat for lunch, we make sure to try to accommodate each other's preferences and needs as much as possible.

When you're in a relationship but not living together, you can easily take a step back after a fight and get some time and space to yourself. You don't have to call, text, or see each other until you're ready.

That luxury goes away when you're cohabitating.

I’m someone who really likes to cease all communication with my partner after a fight until I've cooled off. Instead of being able to retreat to my own apartment to do this, I'm relegated to another room at best now that I'm living with my partner. It's not the ideal situation, but we make it work.

Of course, by the time you're ready to move in with your partner, you should be way past the stage of trying to seem like a perfect, superhuman version of yourself and be comfortable showing your less amazing sides.

If you're not already, you soon will be when you're actually sharing a place.

They'll smell your morning breath, see you ugly cry over some cheesy primetime drama, and know that you leave your dirty socks on the floor six feet from the hamper instead of in it.

The same goes in reverse — all the things your S.O. may have tried to hide from you will be on full display, so you'd better make peace with them if you want things to work.

When you're living with your favorite person, there’s way less impetus to actually get off the couch and go out to do things. After all, you don't need to meet them anywhere since you're already together, so why not order some Chinese and hit up Netflix from the comfort of your shared home, sans pants?

The longer my partner and I lived together, the less likely we were to get all dressed up and hit the town because we were way too comfortable at home. It took a while for us to realize that we hadn't actually gone out on anything resembling a proper date in months, which was an eye-opener. Now we make sure to do something outside the house at least a few times a month.

As much as I love living together, I’m also an introvert at heart. Sometimes you just want some alone time with no one else around to do your own thing.

When this happens, I go into town and sit and read or work in Starbucks for a while, or go for a walk around the local shopping center, even if I don't need anything. Doing this restores a bit of my sanity and means I'm back to my old self by the time I'm home again.

I wouldn't want to go back to living without my partner, but that doesn't mean I don't sometimes think back on my days of living alone with a bit of wistful nostalgia. For instance, I miss not being on the receiving end of a raised eyebrow when yet another package full of new release hardbacks arrives.

Navigating the tricky waters of cohabitation hasn't been easy, but it has been an incredibly rewarding experience that has resulted in a strangely harmonious life full of fun, laughter, and a whole lot of love for my partner.

Yes, I loved her before we moved in together, but experiencing the ups and downs of figuring out life under one roof has brought us closer together than ever before and deepened our love in a really special way. I couldn’t have asked for more.