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9 signs you're in a strong relationship — even if it doesn't feel like it
9 signs you're in a strong relationship — even if it doesn't feel like it
Shana Lebowitz,Marguerite WardJun 16, 2020, 21:52 IST
Many couples in strong relationships try new things together.AYA images/Shutterstock
Signs of a strong relationship include responding positively to each other's good news and trying new things together.
That's according to psychologists who have spent years studying the fundamentals of successful long-term relationships.
Consider the following list to evaluate the quality of your relationship — not a deciding factor in whether you should end it.
During the coronavirus pandemic, many couples are spending more time together in self-isolation. All that time together can lead some to wonder if they're on the right track, or if being in close quarters is exposing faults in the relationship.
Psychologists have spent years studying the traits that are fundamental to successful long-term relationships. We listed some of their most surprising insights below.
A word of caution: If you notice that your relationship doesn't meet all these criteria, that does not necessarily mean you should end things with your partner. Consider this list a general set of guidelines that can help you start evaluating whether your current relationship is bringing you satisfaction and happiness.
Here are nine signs your relationship is as strong as a rock.
Ivan DeLuce contributed to an earlier version of this article.
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You think about your partner often when you're not together.
If you and your partner think about each other a lot when you're not together, that's a great sign.
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You respond positively to each other's good news.
Sharing in each other's joy is another sign of a close bond.
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You spend some time apart.
Having hobbies, friends, and outside interests makes you a more complete person. And that makes you a better partner.
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You have a similar sense of humor.
Neil Clark Warren, psychologist and founder of dating site eHarmony, says humor helps people connect.
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You split chores evenly.
An equal division of household labor is correlated with higher relationship satisfaction.
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You try new things together.
Do you and your partner make time to try new things? If so, you're in great shape.
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You don't have a lot of extreme downturns in your relationship.
Constantly re-thinking the relationship is not a good sign, experts say.
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You know how to recover from a fight.
Disagreements happen, but if you're able to come back to the table and make up, that's a sign of a strong relationship.
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You and your partner appreciate each other.
Couples who feel appreciated by their partner are less likely to break up, one study found.
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