- The best vibrators have three things in common: They're quiet, they're discreet, and they give amazing stimulation regardless of the number of vibration settings they offer.
- Our guide features vibes that performed well over both short- and long-term testing, and are specifically-suited for different needs — whether you're looking for a clit vibrator, a g-spot vibrator, or something to use with a partner.
- Our top pick, the Maude Vibrator, has a discreet shape, features quiet vibrations, and reliably got me across the finish line with only three vibration speeds.
- Each recommended vibrator was medically reviewed by sex educator, Dr. Sadie Allison, PhD, and sexologist and naturopathic doctor, Dr. Jordan Wiggins.
I'm not being facetious when I say that buying your first vibrator is a major rite of passage. Not only is it an incredibly intimate purchase, but it can be the first step in figuring out what makes you feel good sexually — both with or without a partner.
That last part is especially important as I've always been a big proponent of one thing: You can't tell a partner how to satisfy you sexually if you don't know how to do it yourself. Using a vibrator helps bridge that gap, allowing you to figure out how to reach climax on your own while also providing an opportunity for a partner to learn, as well.
Orgasms are good for your health
Then there are the health benefits of staying sexually active. Masturbating to orgasm has a significant positive impact on one's mood and stress levels, and can even help relieve pain and improve sleep. Reaching orgasm releases hormones like endorphins, oxytocin, and serotonin, helping promote the above-listed benefits. Studies show it might even help boost one's immune system.
"One can maintain and even improve vulvovaginal health via regular stimulation or activity," Dr. Barb DePree, MD and founder of MiddlesexMD told Business Insider. "Genital activity promotes blood flow and helps enhance natural secretions, while penetrative sexual activity can maintain vaginal width, length, and tone."
Though DePree mentioned penetration, she acknowledged that there doesn't need to be a partner present and that solo stimulation is just as beneficial. This is where a vibrator (or other sex toys) can help.
"Vibrators are often the primary option for anyone who's not in a sexual relationship, though they can be used in coupled sex, too," she said. "Many women find it more difficult to achieve orgasm over time, and a vibrator can be helpful in providing the necessary stimulation."
But not all vibrators are designed to function the same way. Some are meant for external use while others are intended for penetration or G-spot stimulation. To help narrow down the best of what's available, I tested a variety of vibrators all with their own specific use case. There were couple's vibrators and bullet models, as well as finger-worn vibes and suction models.
Editor's note: Click here for insight into our testing methodology.
Here are the best vibrators: