How to play with a cat
"Play style is very unique to every cat," said Quagliozzi. While some cats need no coaxing to chase a toy or paw at a puzzle board, those that are shy are less likely to have the confidence to engage.
Since cats are hunters and hunters often watch their prey before they pounce, Quagliozzi recommends beginning with a small lure — the feathers on the end of a cat wand or catnip mice, for example — at a distance of at least 6 feet from your cat. Begin to move the lure slowly in their peripheral vision. "Be that bug, do what a bug would do," he said. "What a cat wants is for the toy to get their attention, but then to give them the promise of leaving. Once the toy is just out of sight, that's when their eyes begin to dilate." To trigger their play instincts, you'll have to be patient.
For less confident cats, the path to play is paved with tasty treats. Quagliozzi suggests placing treats around the toy or scratcher to draw a cat to it. "Put toys in spaces they feel comfortable and pick your battles," he said. "If they don't take to [a toy] on their own, encouragement isn't always appropriate. With a fearful cat, it takes time and a little bit of negotiation based on trust."
For a toy to be truly enriching, it must also be novel to a cat. Leaving a basket full of toys out in plain sight isn't doing anyone any favors. "It's just like leaving a graveyard out," said Quagliozzi. Instead, rotate your toys in and out of sight. Try marinating toys that are off duty in a bag filled with catnip so they'll be more exciting to your cat when they reappear. It's also important to rotate scratchers and toys among different locations in the home to renew your cat's interest in their daily landscape.
Because cats are naturally crepuscular (they sleep during the day and are active at night), schedule play for the evening when they are off "airplane mode." Quagliozzi recommends providing them with a minimum of 30 minutes of mental and physical stimulation daily, in addition to feeding them meals out of food-dispensing puzzle toys.