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Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi are one of Hollywood's longest-lasting couples. Here's a timeline of their relationship.

Holly Smith   

Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi are one of Hollywood's longest-lasting couples. Here's a timeline of their relationship.
Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi are one of Hollywood's most iconic couples.Frazer Harrison/Getty Images; Jordan Strauss/Invision/AP
  • Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi first met in 2000, and they got married in 2008.
  • In 2010, de Rossi legally changed her name to Portia Lee James DeGeneres.
  • The couple has combated many divorce reports throughout their relationship, but they celebrated their 10th wedding anniversary in 2018.
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Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi have been married for over a decade, and they are one of the most-watched couples in Hollywood.

But even major fans may not know everything about the talk-show host and model's love story.

Here's a timeline of everything we know about their relationship.

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January 26, 2020: They celebrated DeGeneres' birthday by attending the Grammy Awards.

January 26, 2020: They celebrated DeGeneres
Portia de Rossi and Ellen DeGeneres backstage at the 2020 Grammys.      Frazer Harrison/Getty Images for The Recording Academy

January 5, 2020: The couple attended the Golden Globes together.

January 5, 2020: The couple attended the Golden Globes together.
Portia de Rossi and Ellen DeGeneres at the 2020 Golden Globes.      Frazer Harrison/Getty Images

At the 2020 Golden Globes, DeGeneres was honored with the Carol Burnett Award.

Before the event, she posed with de Rossi on the red carpet.

February 13, 2019: DeGeneres said on her show that she surprises de Rossi every time she goes out of town.

February 13, 2019: DeGeneres said on her show that she surprises de Rossi every time she goes out of town.
Ellen DeGeneres surprises Portia de Rossi with rose petals in her hotel rooms.      Getty Images

Just before Valentine's Day, DeGeneres said during her show's segment "Burning Questions" that every time de Rossi goes out of town, she calls the hotel ahead of time to set up a romantic surprise.

"They put a huge heart-shaped thing of rose petals on her bed. So when she walks into the room, the whole bed is covered with a heart-shaped rose petal," she said.

August 16, 2018: They celebrated their 10th wedding anniversary.

August 16, 2018: They celebrated their 10th wedding anniversary.
Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi celebrated a milestone anniversary in 2018.      Tinseltown/ Shutterstock

The pair celebrated their 10-year wedding anniversary on August 16, 2018.

To celebrate, DeGeneres posted a heart-warming video from their wedding day on Instagram. De Rossi also posted memories from the day on her Instagram account.

February 1, 2018: De Rossi surprised DeGeneres with a gorilla sanctuary for her 60th birthday.

February 1, 2018: De Rossi surprised DeGeneres with a gorilla sanctuary for her 60th birthday.
Portia de Rossi surprised Ellen DeGeneres on her show.      Youtube/Ellen Show

In an emotional moment on "The Ellen DeGeneres Show" in 2018, de Rossi appeared and gifted DeGeneres with a gorilla sanctuary for her 60th birthday.

In the past, DeGeneres has said that primatologist and conservationist Dian Fossey, who studied mountain gorillas, is one of her heroes.

"It's your 60th birthday, and this gift had to be really special, and it had to represent who you are and what you really care about," de Rossi said on the show. "Not just now, but what you've always cared about. What you were influenced by and what has made you the amazing person that you are today."

DeGeneres called it the best gift ever.

"It's good to be loved. It's profound to be understood," DeGeneres said.

2013: Reports that the two were having marital issues surfaced, but DeGeneres publicly denied them.

2013: Reports that the two were having marital issues surfaced, but DeGeneres publicly denied them.
Portia de Rossi and Ellen DeGeneres didn't get divorced.      Frazer Harrison/Getty

Throughout 2013, there were numerous reports the couple was having issues in their relationship, but DeGeneres quickly shut them down.

"There's not one ounce of truth to any of it. I am very happily married. The only thing we ever argue about is who loves who more, it really is true," she told People magazine.

August 2010: De Rossi changed her name to Portia Lee James DeGeneres.

August 2010: De Rossi changed her name to Portia Lee James DeGeneres.
Portia de Rossi decided to change her name two years after her wedding to Ellen DeGeneres.      Christopher Polk/Getty Images for People's Choice Awards

According to Entertainment Weekly, E! Online reported in 2010 that de Rossi legally changed her name to Portia Lee James DeGeneres.

However, she continued to professionally go by Portia de Rossi.

August 16, 2008: The couple got married after California legalized gay marriage.

August 16, 2008: The couple got married after California legalized gay marriage.
Portia de Rossi and Ellen DeGeneres got married soon after same-sex marriage was legalized in California.      Kevork Djansezian/Getty Images

In 2008, the Supreme Court of California made it possible for same-sex couples to get married. Soon after, de Rossi and DeGeneres were officially married in an intimate wedding ceremony.

"Today we have taken a giant step forward toward the ideal that all of us, with no exceptions, are not only created equal, but we each have the unalienable right to pursue our own happiness," said motivational speaker Wayne Dyer, who officiated the ceremony according to a post on DeGeneres' Instagram.

"With your exchange of vows today, you symbolize for many who have gone before you, who were forced to live their lives in quiet desperation, lurking in the shadows, that we as people, are truly better than we used to be," he continued, per the post.

2005: The pair publicly announced their relationship and made their first red-carpet appearance.

2005: The pair publicly announced their relationship and made their first red-carpet appearance.
Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi at their first public red-carpet appearance in 2005.      Frazer Harrison/Getty Images

DeGeneres and de Rossi made their first public appearance together at the HBO Golden Globe Awards Party in January 2005.

Later that year, de Rossi opened up about what it means to be a gay woman in Hollywood in an interview with The Advocate.

"Believe me, I had a very, very long and difficult struggle with my sexuality," she said, which marked the first time she had openly spoken about her sexuality and her relationship with DeGeneres.

She continued, "I didn't choose the fact that I was gay, but I did choose whether to live my life as a gay woman — that was the terrifying thing for me. Especially being a gay actress. I love playing all different kinds of women, and the majority of women aren't gay, so the majority of characters aren't going to be gay."

Later that year, according to People, DeGeneres and de Rossi moved into a two-bedroom house together in LA.

In DeGeneres' cover-story interview for the magazine, she told the publication, "It's the first time that I've known in every cell of my being that I'm with somebody for the rest of my life."

December 1, 2004: The two reconnected at an award show.

December 1, 2004: The two reconnected at an award show.
The show was hosted by VH1.      Evan Agostini/Getty

The pair reconnected in 2004 at the Shrine Auditorium in Los Angeles for VH1's Big in '04 Awards, according to The Advocate.

2000: The couple first met at a party, and it was love at first sight for De Rossi.

2000: The couple first met at a party, and it was love at first sight for De Rossi.
Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi met at a party in 2000.      Kevin Winter/Getty

During the couple's first joint interview in 2009, de Rossi told Oprah she knew she was in love with DeGeneres from the first time she laid eyes on her at a party in 2000.

But she said it then took her over three years to tell DeGeneres how she felt because she wasn't out as a gay woman.

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