4. Giving a long-winded toast
When it comes to speeches, McNeeley said, keep it to two minutes or less.
It's okay if you go a little bit over, she added. But "it is a faux pas when you completely hold the whole room hostage and speak for 15 minutes and nobody's interested," she added, especially because it stops the wine and food service.
Similarly, McNeeley recommends that you avoid giving impromptu toasts. "It just becomes awkward and embarrassing," she said, and much of the time, the person giving the toast is drunk.
In that situation, McNeeley said, "You think it's so great, but it's not as great as you think it is."