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Parenthood looks different in every culture around the world.
In some places, kids don't start school until the age of 7, have minimal homework, and take long breaks during school.
Here are seven unique parenting styles from around the world that could leave Americans shocked (or jealous).
Parenthood doesn't come with a rulebook. There does, however, seem to be a set of unofficial parenting guidelines, and they vary profoundly among different cultures. Parents in one country might not think twice about spanking for bad behavior, parents in other parts of the world would consider it a crime.
Some Americans would be horrified by the sight of unsupervised babies sleeping in their strollers on the sidewalks of Scandinavia, Japanese elementary students cleaning their own school toilets, or preteens sipping cabernet sauvignon with their pizza in Italy.
Here are seven unique parenting styles from around the world that might come as a surprise:
Kids don't need a chaperone to help get them to school, nor do they need anyone else cleaning up after them once there. From as early as first grade, Japanese students sweep and mop classrooms and hallways, dust, and even sometimes clean the bathrooms in their schools, according to Mic.
2. Babies nap outside (even during the winter)
Scandinavian children are raised on the foundation of "friluftsliv," or "open-air living." It isn't abnormal to see babies napping outside in their strollers, unattended, even in the wintertime.
Chinese babies are taught to relieve themselves into the toilet on command of a parent's whistle, sometimes starting when they are only a few months old. Many kids are fully potty trained by age 2, according to The Washington Post.
4. Less time in the classroom
Students in Finland rank among the smartest in the world — they are consistently at or near the top of OECD rankings for math, science, and reading, according to The Times. Some might be surprised to discover that they don't start school until they turn seven.
Tiina Marjoniemi, the head of Franzenia Daycare Centre in Helsinki, told The Guardian that before the age of seven, children are expected to "play and be physically active," calling the first seven years of life "a time for creativity."
It has long been tradition in Great Britain and other countries outside the US to take a "gap year" between high school and college, according to Quartz. A 2017 statistic revealed that in the UK, 230,000 students between 18 and 25 years old took a gap year to travel, work, and volunteer.
6. Kids and adults eat (and drink) the same things
Adults in Italy aren't the only ones sipping on a glass of red with dinner — their kids are, too. According to a study by Boston University Medical Center, Italian children who were raised with wine at dinnertime were less likely to develop “harmful drinking patterns” in adulthood.
Wine and the responsible consumption of it is so important to Italians that it's included in the primary school curriculum, where students start learning about their country's wine culture at six years old, The Daily Mail reports.
And while Italian kids are raised to be responsible drinkers, French kids are raised to be sophisticated eaters. French kids eat the same nutritious, balanced meals as adults, says University of British Columbia Professor Karen Le Billon in her book, “French Kids Eat Everything.”
7. All-hands-on-deck parenting
In many parts of Africa, the responsibility of raising a child lies with entire extended families, but even non-relatives are happy to help out.
It isn't unusual for mothers to share breast milk with other people’s children in The Democratic Republic of Congo and Kenya. Researchers have even discovered men “breastfeeding” children among Central Africa's Aka Pygmy tribe, according to The Guardian.
