If you're getting the sense that's the case, you'll want to do everything you can to turn things around before it's too late.
"By recognizing the early symptoms and being proactive, you can better learn to separate work from your personal life - and be successful in both," says Lynn Taylor, a national workplace expert and the author of "Tame Your Terrible Office Tyrant: How to Manage Childish Boss Behavior and Thrive in Your Job."
Michael Kerr, an international business speaker and author of "The Humor Advantage," agrees. "You want to recognize red flags early that your work is impacting your marriage so you aren't blindsided by your spouse before it's too late to make any changes."
Here's what to do when you realize your job might be ruining your marriage: